Upcoming Events


94th Social- NOV 2024
Nov
20

94th Social- NOV 2024

Welcome to San Diego’s longest running all inclusive kink social!

Come eat, drink, mingle and win fun prizes!

Every 3rd Wednesday of the month we gather for a fun evening of socializing, eating & drinking, and general merriment from 6-9pm. Opportunity tickets are sold from 6-7:30pm (with proceeds going to purchase more prizes for the table for the following months), and everyone gets 5 free tickets just for showing up (please check in to receive your 5 free tickets). Prize giveaway starts at 7:30pm and we need to respectfully clear out of the restaurant by 9pm.

Keep up to date with us on instagram @94thSocialSD

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the resource table for others to grab, or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with 15 complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email us at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen (she/her)

The 94th Social is longest running BDSM munch in San Diego. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying great drinks & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most EPIC dining establishment.

FAQs

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

Stone Brewing Co Liberty Station

2816 Historic Decatur Rd

San Diego, CA 92106

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar. Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other vanilla public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host kitten jen (she/her) and her helpers pup Brutus (he/they) and J (she/her). They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss her)

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94th Social- OCT 2024
Oct
16

94th Social- OCT 2024

Welcome to San Diego’s longest running all inclusive kink social!

Come eat, drink, mingle and win fun prizes!

Every 3rd Wednesday of the month we gather for a fun evening of socializing, eating & drinking, and general merriment from 6-9pm. Opportunity tickets are sold from 6-7:30pm (with proceeds going to purchase more prizes for the table for the following months), and everyone gets 5 free tickets just for showing up (please check in to receive your 5 free tickets). Prize giveaway starts at 7:30pm and we need to respectfully clear out of the restaurant by 9pm.

Keep up to date with us on instagram @94thSocialSD

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the resource table for others to grab, or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with 15 complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email us at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen (she/her)

The 94th Social is longest running BDSM munch in San Diego. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying great drinks & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most EPIC dining establishment.

FAQs

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

Stone Brewing Co Liberty Station

2816 Historic Decatur Rd

San Diego, CA 92106

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar. Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other vanilla public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host kitten jen (she/her) and her helpers pup Brutus (he/they) and J (she/her). They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss her)

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94th Social- SEPT 2024
Sep
18

94th Social- SEPT 2024

Welcome to San Diego’s longest running all inclusive kink social!

Come eat, drink, mingle and win fun prizes!

Every 3rd Wednesday of the month we gather for a fun evening of socializing, eating & drinking, and general merriment from 6-9pm. Opportunity tickets are sold from 6-7:30pm (with proceeds going to purchase more prizes for the table for the following months), and everyone gets 5 free tickets just for showing up (please check in to receive your 5 free tickets). Prize giveaway starts at 7:30pm and we need to respectfully clear out of the restaurant by 9pm.

Keep up to date with us on instagram @94thSocialSD

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the resource table for others to grab, or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with 15 complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email us at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen (she/her)

The 94th Social is longest running BDSM munch in San Diego. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying great drinks & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most EPIC dining establishment.

FAQs

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

Stone Brewing Co Liberty Station

2816 Historic Decatur Rd

San Diego, CA 92106

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar. Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other vanilla public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host kitten jen (she/her) and her helpers pup Brutus (he/they) and J (she/her). They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss her)

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94th Social- AUGUST
Aug
21

94th Social- AUGUST

Welcome to San Diego’s longest running all inclusive kink social!

Come eat, drink, mingle and win fun prizes!

Every 3rd Wednesday of the month we gather for a fun evening of socializing, eating & drinking, and general merriment from 6-9pm. Opportunity tickets are sold from 6-7:30pm (with proceeds going to purchase more prizes for the table for the following months), and everyone gets 5 free tickets just for showing up (please check in to receive your 5 free tickets). Prize giveaway starts at 7:30pm and we need to respectfully clear out of the restaurant by 9pm.

Keep up to date with us on instagram @94thSocialSD

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the resource table for others to grab, or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with 15 complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email us at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen (she/her)

The 94th Social is longest running BDSM munch in San Diego. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying great drinks & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most EPIC dining establishment.

FAQs

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

Stone Brewing Co Liberty Station

2816 Historic Decatur Rd

San Diego, CA 92106

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar. Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other vanilla public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host kitten jen (she/her) and her helpers pup Brutus (he/they) and J (she/her). They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss her)

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94th Social- JULY
Jul
17

94th Social- JULY

Welcome to San Diego’s longest running all inclusive kink social!

Come eat, drink, mingle and win fun prizes!

Every 3rd Wednesday of the month we gather for a fun evening of socializing, eating & drinking, and general merriment from 6-9pm. Opportunity tickets are sold from 6-7:30pm (with proceeds going to purchase more prizes for the table for the following months), and everyone gets 5 free tickets just for showing up (please check in to receive your 5 free tickets). Prize giveaway starts at 7:30pm and we need to respectfully clear out of the restaurant by 9pm.

Keep up to date with us on instagram @94thSocialSD

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the resource table for others to grab, or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with 15 complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email us at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen (she/her)

The 94th Social is longest running BDSM munch in San Diego. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying great drinks & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most EPIC dining establishment.

FAQs

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

Stone Brewing Co Liberty Station

2816 Historic Decatur Rd

San Diego, CA 92106

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar. Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other vanilla public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host kitten jen (she/her) and her helpers pup Brutus (he/they) and J (she/her). They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss her)

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94th Social- JUNE
Jun
19

94th Social- JUNE

Welcome to San Diego’s longest running all inclusive kink social!

Come eat, drink, mingle and win fun prizes!

Every 3rd Wednesday of the month we gather for a fun evening of socializing, eating & drinking, and general merriment from 6-9pm. Opportunity tickets are sold from 6-7:30pm (with proceeds going to purchase more prizes for the table for the following months), and everyone gets 5 free tickets just for showing up (please check in to receive your 5 free tickets). Prize giveaway starts at 7:30pm and we need to respectfully clear out of the restaurant by 9pm.

Keep up to date with us on instagram @94thSocialSD

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the resource table for others to grab, or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with 15 complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email us at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen (she/her)

The 94th Social is longest running BDSM munch in San Diego. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying great drinks & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most EPIC dining establishment.

FAQs

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

Stone Brewing Co Liberty Station

2816 Historic Decatur Rd

San Diego, CA 92106

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar. Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other vanilla public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host kitten jen (she/her) and her helpers pup Brutus (he/they) and J (she/her). They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss her)

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94th Social- MAY <NEW LOCATION>
May
15

94th Social- MAY <NEW LOCATION>

Welcome to San Diego’s longest running all inclusive kink social!

Come eat, drink, mingle and win fun prizes!

Every 3rd Wednesday of the month we gather for a fun evening of socializing, eating & drinking, and general merriment from 6-9pm. Opportunity tickets are sold from 6-7:30pm (with proceeds going to purchase more prizes for the table for the following months), and everyone gets 5 free tickets just for showing up (please check in to receive your 5 free tickets). Prize giveaway starts at 7:30pm and we need to respectfully clear out of the restaurant by 9pm.

Keep up to date with us on instagram @94thSocialSD

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the resource table for others to grab, or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with 15 complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email us at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen (she/her)

The 94th Social is longest running BDSM munch in San Diego. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying great drinks & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most EPIC dining establishment.

FAQs

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

Stone Brewing Co Liberty Station

2816 Historic Decatur Rd

San Diego, CA 92106

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar. Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other vanilla public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host kitten jen (she/her) and her helpers pup Brutus (he/they) and J (she/her). They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss her)

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94th Social- APRIL &lt;CANCELED&gt;
Apr
17

94th Social- APRIL <CANCELED>

OUR APRIL EVENT HAS BEEN CANCELED as we take time to switch to a new venue, please join us in MAY at our new trial location Stone Brewing Co Liberty Station!

Welcome to San Diego’s longest running all inclusive kink social! Come eat, drink, mingle and win fun prizes!

Every 3rd Wednesday of the month we gather at the 94th Aero Squadron Restaurant from 6-9pm. Raffle tickets are sold from 6-7:30pm (with proceeds going to purchase more prizes for the table for the following months), and everyone gets 5 free tickets just for showing up (please check in at the prize table to receive your 5 free tickets). Raffle starts at 7:30pm and we need to respectfully clear out of the restaurant by 9pm.

Keep up to date with us on instagram @94thSocialSD

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the table for others to grab or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with 15 complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen (she/her)

The 94th Aero Squadron Social is one of San Diego's longest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other vanilla public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host kitten jen (she/her) and her helpers pup Brutus (he/they) and J (she/her). They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss her)

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94th Social- MARCH
Mar
20

94th Social- MARCH

Welcome to San Diego’s longest running all inclusive kink social! Come eat, drink, mingle and win fun prizes!

Every 3rd Wednesday of the month we gather at the 94th Aero Squadron Restaurant from 6-9pm. Raffle tickets are sold from 6-7:30pm (with proceeds going to purchase more prizes for the table for the following months), and everyone gets 5 free tickets just for showing up (please check in at the prize table to receive your 5 free tickets). Raffle starts at 7:30pm and we need to respectfully clear out of the restaurant by 9pm.

Keep up to date with us on instagram @94thSocialSD

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the table for others to grab or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with 15 complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen (she/her)

The 94th Aero Squadron Social is one of San Diego's longest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQs

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other vanilla public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host kitten jen and her helpers pup Brutus (he/they) and J (she/her). They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss her)

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94th Social- FEB
Feb
21

94th Social- FEB

Welcome to San Diego’s longest running all inclusive kink social! Come eat, drink, mingle and win fun prizes!

Every 3rd Wednesday of the month we gather at the 94th Aero Squadron Restaurant from 6-9pm. Raffle tickets are sold from 6-7:30pm (with proceeds going to purchase more prizes for the table for the following months), and everyone gets 5 free tickets just for showing up (please check in at the prize table to receive your 5 free tickets). Raffle starts at 7:30pm and we need to respectfully clear out of the restaurant by 9pm.

Keep up to date with us on instagram @94thSocialSD

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the table for others to grab or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with 15 complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen (she/her)

The 94th Aero Squadron Social is one of San Diego's longest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQs

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other vanilla public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host kitten jen and her helpers pup Brutus (he/they) and J (she/her). They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss her)

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94th Social- JAN
Jan
17

94th Social- JAN

Welcome to San Diego’s longest running all inclusive kink social! Come eat, drink, mingle and win fun prizes!

Every 3rd Wednesday of the month we gather at the 94th Aero Squadron Restaurant from 6-9pm. Raffle tickets are sold from 6-7:30pm (with proceeds going to purchase more prizes for the table for the following months), and everyone gets 5 free tickets just for showing up (please check in at the prize table to receive your 5 free tickets). Raffle starts at 7:30pm and we need to respectfully clear out of the restaurant by 9pm.

Keep up to date with us on instagram @94thSocialSD

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the table for others to grab or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with 15 complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen (she/her)

The 94th Aero Squadron Social is one of San Diego's longest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQs

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other vanilla public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host kitten jen and her helpers pup Brutus (he/they) and J (she/her). They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss her)

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94th Social- DEC
Dec
20

94th Social- DEC

Opportunity tickets will start collecting donations at 6pm, and we will start the drawing at 7:30pm, to clear out of the venue by 9ish

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the table for others to grab or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen & Bee

The 94th Aero Squadron Social is one of San Diego's longest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our hosts, kitten jen & Bee. They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, and Bee is a very tall bright colored hair gentleman, you can’t miss them!) 

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94th Social- NOV
Nov
15

94th Social- NOV

Opportunity tickets will start collecting donations at 6pm, and we will start the drawing at 7:30pm, to clear out of the venue by 9ish

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the table for others to grab or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen & Bee

The 94th Aero Squadron Social is one of San Diego's longest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our hosts, kitten jen & Bee. They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, and Bee is a very tall bright colored hair gentleman, you can’t miss them!) 

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94th Social- OCT
Oct
18

94th Social- OCT

Opportunity tickets will start collecting donations at 6pm, and we will start the drawing at 7:30pm, to clear out of the venue by 9ish

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the table for others to grab or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

kitten jen & Bee

The 94th Aero Squadron Social is one of San Diego's longest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our hosts, kitten jen & Bee. They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, and Bee is a very tall bright colored hair gentleman, you can’t miss them!) 

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Mar
15

94th Social- MARCH 2023

Opportunity tickets will start collecting donations at 6pm, and we will start the drawing at 7:30pm, to clear out of the venue by 9ish

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the table for others to grab or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

**As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.**

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie & kitten jen

The 94th Aero Squadron Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie or kitten jen. They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (Annie is a six foot tall, loud, colorful red haired pixie, and kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss them!)

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Feb
15

94th Social- FEB 2023

Opportunity tickets will start collecting donations at 6pm, and we will start the drawing at 7:30pm, to clear out of the venue by 9ish

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the table for others to grab or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

**As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.**

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie & kitten jen

The 94th Aero Squadron Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie or kitten jen. They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (Annie is a six foot tall, loud, colorful red haired pixie, and kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss them!)

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Jan
18

94th Social- JAN 2023

Opportunity tickets will start collecting donations at 6pm, and we will start the drawing at 7:30pm, to clear out of the venue by 9ish

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the table for others to grab or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

**As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.**

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie & kitten jen

The 94th Aero Squadron Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie or kitten jen. They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (Annie is a six foot tall, loud, colorful red haired pixie, and kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss them!)

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Dec
21

94th BDSM Social- DEC

Opportunity tickets will start collecting donations at 6pm, and we will start the drawing at 7:30pm, to clear out of the venue by 9ish

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the table for others to grab or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie & kitten jen

The 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, of people interested in BDSM.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of BDSM themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie or her assistant kitten jen. They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (Annie is a six foot tall, loud, colorful red haired pixie, and kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss them!)

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Nov
16

94th BDSM social- NOV

Opportunity tickets will start collecting donations at 6pm, and we will start the drawing at 7:30pm, to clear out of the venue by 9ish

A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the table for others to grab or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie & kitten jen

The 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, of people interested in BDSM.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of BDSM themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie or her assistant kitten jen. They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (Annie is a six foot tall, loud, colorful red haired pixie, and kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss them!)

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Sep
21

94th BDSM SOCIAL- September

NOTE: Event is now 6-9pm to align better with the restaurant's needs at this time. Raffle tickets will start selling at 6pm, we will start the raffle at 7:30pm, and clear out of the venue by 9pm. Thanks for being flexible and allowing us to continue to host our event at this location.

Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

As always, we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email me at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie (@ThatMissAnnie)

The 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, of people interested in BDSM.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of BDSM themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie or her assistant kitten jen. They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (Annie is a six foot tall, loud, colorful pink haired pixie, and kitten jen is a tiny blue haired curvy princess usually in a glowing crown, you can’t miss them!)

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Aug
17

94th BDSM Social- AUG

NOTE: Change in hours! Event is now 6-9pm to align better with the restaurant's needs at this time. Raffle tickets will start selling at 6pm, we will start the raffle at 7:30pm, and clear out of the venue by 9pm. Thanks for being flexible and allowing us to continue to host our event at this location.

We are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!

We gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie (@ThatMissAnnie)

The 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, of people interested in BDSM.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of BDSM themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie or her assistant kitten jen. They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (Annie is a six foot tall, loud, colorful pink haired pixie, and kitten jen is a tiny blue haired curvy princess usually in a glowing crown, you can’t miss them!)

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Jun
15

BDSM Social- June 2022

We gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

In an effort to support our local sex positive businesses, we now have sponsorship opportunities.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email me at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie (@ThatMissAnnie)

The 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, of people interested in BDSM.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of BDSM themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

Our friends at 94th are extending their hours just for us each 3rd Wednesday of the month, the restaurant will be closing at 9:30pm, and we'll vamoose before 10pm.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

7:00 PM to 9:30 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie. She’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (She’s a six foot tall, loud, colorful redhead, you can’t miss her!)

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May
18

BDSM SOCIAL- MAY 2022

Longest Running All-Inclusive Kink Social in San Diego

We gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

In an effort to support our local sex positive businesses, we now have sponsorship opportunities.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email me at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie (@ThatMissAnnie)

The 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, of people interested in BDSM.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of BDSM themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

Our friends at 94th are extending their hours just for us each 3rd Wednesday of the month, the restaurant will be closing at 9:30pm, and we'll vamoose before 10pm.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

7:00 PM to 9:30 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie. She’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (She’s a six foot tall, loud, colorful redhead, you can’t miss her!)

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Nov
17

November BDSM Social 2021

Our friends at 94th are extending their hours just for us each 3rd Wednesday of the month, the restaurant will be closing at 9:30pm, and we'll vamoose before 10pm.

We gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

In an effort to support our local sex positive businesses, we now have sponsorship opportunities.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email me at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie (@ThatMissAnnie)

The 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, of people interested in BDSM.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of BDSM themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

7:00 PM to 9:30 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie. She’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (She’s a six foot tall, loud, colorful redhead, you can’t miss her!)

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Oct
20

October BDSM Social 2021

Our friends at 94th heard us loud and clear and are extending their hours just for us each 3rd Wednesday of the month! We won't be rushed out of the venue this time, as the restaurant will be closing at 9:30pm, and we'll vamoose before 10pm.

DUE TO THE INCREASED RISK OF THE DELTA VARIANT WE'RE HIGHLY RECOMMENDING WEARING A MASK AT THE EVENT AND WILL FOLLOW ANY GUIDELINES SET OUT FOR US BY THE RESTAURANT OR SD COUNTY.

We gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

In an effort to support our local sex positive businesses, we now have sponsorship opportunities.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email me at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie (@ThatMissAnnie)

The 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, of people interested in BDSM.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of BDSM themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

  • The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

  • 7:00 PM to 9:30 PM

Where is it?

  • 94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

  • 8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

  • Back Patio

  • Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

  • Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

  • There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

  • This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

  • Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

  • Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

  • We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

  • Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

    • No bullying or hate speech.

    • No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

    • No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

    • No personal attacks.

    • No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

    • Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

    • Known abusers are not welcome.

  • If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

  • If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie. She’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (She’s a six foot tall, loud, colorful redhead, you can’t miss her!)

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Sep
15

September BDSM Social 2021

Our friends at 94th heard us loud and clear and are extending their hours just for us each 3rd Wednesday of the month! We won't be rushed out of the venue this time, as the restaurant will be closing at 9:30pm, and we'll vamoose before 10pm.

DUE TO THE INCREASED RISK OF THE DELTA VARIANT WE'RE HIGHLY RECOMMENDING WEARING A MASK AT THE EVENT AND WILL FOLLOW ANY GUIDELINES SET OUT FOR US BY THE RESTAURANT OR SD COUNTY.

We gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

In an effort to support our local sex positive businesses, we now have sponsorship opportunities.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email me at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie (@ThatMissAnnie)

The 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, of people interested in BDSM.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of BDSM themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

  • The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

  • 7:00 PM to 9:30 PM

Where is it?

  • 94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

  • 8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

  • Back Patio

  • Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

  • Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

  • There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

  • This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

  • Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

  • Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

  • We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

  • Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

    • No bullying or hate speech.

    • No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

    • No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

    • No personal attacks.

    • No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

    • Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

    • Known abusers are not welcome.

  • If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

  • If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie. She’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (She’s a six foot tall, loud, colorful redhead, you can’t miss her!)

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Aug
18

AUGUST 2021

Our friends at 94th heard us loud and clear and are extending their hours just for us each 3rd Wednesday of the month! We won't be rushed out of the venue this time, as the restaurant will be closing at 9:30pm, and we'll vamoose before 10pm.

DUE TO THE INCREASED RISK OF THE DELTA VARIANT WE'RE HIGHLY RECOMMENDING WEARING A MASK AT THE EVENT AND WILL FOLLOW ANY GUIDELINES SET OUT FOR US BY THE RESTAURANT OR SD COUNTY.

We gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

In an effort to support our local sex positive businesses, we now have sponsorship opportunities.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email me at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie (@ThatMissAnnie)

The 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, of people interested in BDSM.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of BDSM themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

  • The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

  • 7:00 PM to 9:30 PM

Where is it?

  • 94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

  • 8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

  • Back Patio

  • Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

  • Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

  • There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

  • This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

  • Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

  • Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

  • We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

  • Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

    • No bullying or hate speech.

    • No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

    • No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

    • No personal attacks.

    • No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

    • Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

    • Known abusers are not welcome.

  • If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

  • If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie. She’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (She’s a six foot tall, loud, colorful redhead, you can’t miss her!)

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June Social
Jun
16

June Social

Masks are required & hand sanitizer will be available

It's an honor carry on the tradition of this fantastic event, serving this incredible community, even more so to host my first ever event after this pandemic-induced hiatus! I absolutely cannot wait to see all of your faces again!

We gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

In an effort to support our local sex positive businesses, we now have sponsorship opportunities.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email me at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie (@ThatMissAnnie)

The 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, of people interested in BDSM.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of BDSM themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

FAQ

When is it?

  • The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

  • 7:00 PM to 9:30 PM

Where is it?

  • 94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

  • 8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

  • Back Patio

  • Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

  • Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

  • There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

  • This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

  • Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

  • Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

  • We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

  • Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

    • No bullying or hate speech.

    • No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

    • No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

    • No personal attacks.

    • No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

    • Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

    • Known abusers are not welcome.

  • If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

  • If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie. She’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (She’s a six foot tall, loud, colorful redhead, you can’t miss her!)

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