Welcome to San Diego’s longest running all inclusive kink social!
Come eat, drink, mingle and win fun prizes!
Every 3rd Wednesday of the month we gather for a fun evening of socializing, eating & drinking, and general merriment from 6-9pm. Opportunity tickets are sold from 6-7:30pm (with proceeds going to purchase more prizes for the table for the following months), and everyone gets 5 free tickets just for showing up (please check in to receive your 5 free tickets). Prize giveaway starts at 7:30pm and we need to respectfully clear out of the restaurant by 9pm.
Keep up to date with us on instagram @94thSocialSD
A few notes of conduct: please keep in mind this is a vanilla venue, that means attire and behavior should be in line as such. While we are giving away kinky things this is not the place to use them in public. We also do not allow any vending/selling of products on site. If you want to promote your business through 94th you can donate to the prize table with your goods, make sure your business card is attached to the item, and leave more business cards at the resource table for others to grab, or hand them out when people ask for them, but no one should be selling anything during this event!
Also, we are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!
As always we gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with 15 complimentary tickets given for every donation.
If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email us at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com
Thank you so much!
kitten jen (she/her)
The 94th Social is longest running BDSM munch in San Diego. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.
Started in 1997, the 94th Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, for people interested in the kink community at large.
Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of kinky themed prizes, all while enjoying great drinks & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most EPIC dining establishment.
FAQs
When is it?
The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.
6:00 PM to 9:00 PM
Where is it?
Stone Brewing Co Liberty Station
2816 Historic Decatur Rd
San Diego, CA 92106
How much does it cost?
This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.
Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar. Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!
Attire and Conduct
We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other vanilla public setting.
We are constantly working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.
No bullying or hate speech.
No anti-vanilla rhetoric.
No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.
No personal attacks.
No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.
Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.
Known abusers are not welcome.
If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above please see the prize table or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com
New?
If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host kitten jen (she/her) and her helpers pup Brutus (he/they) and J (she/her). They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (kitten jen is a tiny purple haired curvy princess, you can’t miss her)