NOTE: Change in hours! Event is now 6-9pm to align better with the restaurant's needs at this time. Raffle tickets will start selling at 6pm, we will start the raffle at 7:30pm, and clear out of the venue by 9pm. Thanks for being flexible and allowing us to continue to host our event at this location.
We are currently looking for a few friendly people that would like to act as introduction ambassadors for this event that we can send new people to start making some introductions/friends. If you'd like to be extra social and help please come up to the table when you arrive and let us know you're someone we can send the newbies to!
We gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.
If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com
Thank you so much!
Miss Annie (@ThatMissAnnie)
The 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.
Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, of people interested in BDSM.
Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of BDSM themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.
FAQ
When is it?
The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.
6:00 PM to 9:00 PM
Where is it?
94th Aero Squadron Restaurant
8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123
Back Patio
Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.
Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.
There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.
How much does it cost?
This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.
Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!
Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!
Attire and Conduct
We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.
Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.
No bullying or hate speech.
No anti-vanilla rhetoric.
No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.
No personal attacks.
No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.
Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.
Known abusers are not welcome.
If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com
New?
If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie or her assistant kitten jen. They’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (Annie is a six foot tall, loud, colorful pink haired pixie, and kitten jen is a tiny blue haired curvy princess usually in a glowing crown, you can’t miss them!)